In this post, Easterseals New Jersey has invited Margaret Spaziani, Esq. to speak about the benefits of becoming the guardian of an adult child with a disability. Ms. Spaziani is an attorney with the firm Giordano, Halleran, & Ciesla and an expert in these complicated legal matters. Guardianship can provide many protections for your child as they enter adulthood and we want to make sure you’re prepared for this sensitive transition.
By Margaret Spaziani, Esq.
Why Guardianship?
Often, relatives of a young adult that has serious developmental disabilities, autism or traumatic brain injury and reaches the age of legal adulthood and relatives of elderly adults, find themselves without the legal authority to help their loved ones.
Guardianship is needed so the Court can appoint someone to act as the surrogate decision-maker for an incapacitated person. The Guardian of the Person makes decisions concerning place of residence, choice of physicians, treatment and healthcare choices, and other personal issues. The Guardian of the Property or Estate controls the decision about income, assets, legal actions, insurance claims, property, and the like. Without a guardianship in place, relatives have no authority to make decisions and fully communicate with physicians, health care residences, and financial institutions on behalf of their loved ones.
How’s it Happen?
The guardianship process involves filing a petition with the Court and holding a hearing to establish the incapacity and need for a guardian. Initially, the Court must make a determination that an incapacity exists. Reaching that determination will require medical reports from two independent physicians. A petitioner must prove to the Court’s satisfaction that the individual is incapacitated and that there is a need for a guardian. Once the Court signs the Order appointing a guardian and declaring a person incapacitated, the Guardian has authority to communicate with medical professionals and financial institutions.
If your loved one is living in a residential setting it is very important for guardians to maintain contact with the caretakers and always take a proactive initiative. Do not assume you will always be informed unless you are known to his/her caretaking community.
If your loved one is residing with you, it is still important to keep an open dialogue with caretakers, social workers and other therapists and now that you have been appointed as guardian this is possible. Because you have a guardianship, you can make decisions regarding medications and therapy. Guardians should be vigilant and thoughtful.
If you are the guardian of your adult child with disabilities, you should also name someone to step in for you in the event of your death to ensure that your adult disabled child’s care is continued. This condition lasts their lifetime and yours so it is important to have a plan of succession in place.
If you have been avoiding a guardianship and your child with disabilities is already an adult, get a guardianship going now and save yourself years of worry and emergency calls and the stress that it puts on you and your family.
For More Information Contact:
Margaret A. Spaziani, Esq.
mspaziani@ghclaw.com
www.ghclaw.com
where do you go for help if you have a 50year old daughter with no job no money and it is impossible to live with. She is lost and I am afraid of losing her but don’t know how to help her and neither does her sister. We want to help but not enable her. She only takes advantage when we help her too much. I would like her to be able to function in life. who can I turn to for knowledge? She is living with a friend but her money from her divorce is gone and I am afraid she will have to leave there. We all have tried to live with her but she acts like she is the only person with problem and abuses our help. Thank you Bobbie